One day I was perusing Craigslist.com when I came across a link to a website of a woman who has an advice column. I didn't think much of it until I started reading her responses and I saw her picture. As if her wit and intelligence were not enough to intrigue me, I went on to notice that she has gorgeous red hair and brown eyes. My question is if I wanted to propose a night of dining at a resturant of her choice, how should I go about doing it?
Thanks,
::Fingers Crossed::
Thank you for your email.
I am flattered by your letter, but the website (spilltojill.com) is for questions about the lives of people who may need advice. I am not in the position to accept any such offers for personal relations.
I hope all goes well for you, and please feel free to write in with any questions you may need advice to.
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Jill Warner
www.spilltojill.com (advice site)
Thanks for the reply, but isn't there kind of a legitimate question here?. I'm sure some people may be able to relate to this.
Dear ::Fingers Crossed::,
As you asked a question in your latest email to me, I figured I would answer you. You do have a legitimate question - however - I felt the question was more personal (to me) than Professional. Regardless, I have decided to answer your question. I am going to answer from a non-biased position, as usual.
If you are to propose a night of dining at a resturant of her choice you should first find out more about this person. Make sure to do your homework. Is she single? Would she be interested in your gender (heterosexual versus homosexual, etc)? Does she live near you? If not, would she be interested in meeting someone far away? Would she at all be interested? Ways to do your homework is to see if she has other websites, blogs and/or communities. If she does have other websites, blogs or communities - try to find out the answers to the questions above. Many sites (such as myspace.com or friendster.com) ask for a person's status and provides that on their profile page. If you cannot find any information on this person, go ahead and email her. Try to get to know her through email or IM.
Once you get to know her (and she appears to be single and interested), ask her out (but don't freak her out) in a calm and casual sort of way. Once you are friends, begin to woo her with your charm. If she appears to be attached and/or not interested, don't bother wasting your own time. Keep looking as there are plenty of great women out there!
Thanks,
::Fingers Crossed::
Thank you for your email.
I am flattered by your letter, but the website (spilltojill.com) is for questions about the lives of people who may need advice. I am not in the position to accept any such offers for personal relations.
I hope all goes well for you, and please feel free to write in with any questions you may need advice to.
--
Jill Warner
www.spilltojill.com (advice site)
Thanks for the reply, but isn't there kind of a legitimate question here?. I'm sure some people may be able to relate to this.
Dear ::Fingers Crossed::,
As you asked a question in your latest email to me, I figured I would answer you. You do have a legitimate question - however - I felt the question was more personal (to me) than Professional. Regardless, I have decided to answer your question. I am going to answer from a non-biased position, as usual.
If you are to propose a night of dining at a resturant of her choice you should first find out more about this person. Make sure to do your homework. Is she single? Would she be interested in your gender (heterosexual versus homosexual, etc)? Does she live near you? If not, would she be interested in meeting someone far away? Would she at all be interested? Ways to do your homework is to see if she has other websites, blogs and/or communities. If she does have other websites, blogs or communities - try to find out the answers to the questions above. Many sites (such as myspace.com or friendster.com) ask for a person's status and provides that on their profile page. If you cannot find any information on this person, go ahead and email her. Try to get to know her through email or IM.
Once you get to know her (and she appears to be single and interested), ask her out (but don't freak her out) in a calm and casual sort of way. Once you are friends, begin to woo her with your charm. If she appears to be attached and/or not interested, don't bother wasting your own time. Keep looking as there are plenty of great women out there!
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HEY! Don't leave us hanging! what the heck happened to fingers crossed? Signed, curious.
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