Name Kelly
Subject cheating husband

my husband of 4 years has recently confessed to passionatly kissing another women 3 years ago on my sisters husbands stag nite i dont know how to react as it was a long time ago but i still feel betrayed what should i do please help xx

Dear Kelly,

I think it makes sense that you feel betrayed - on a few different levels.
First he betrayed you by being intimate with another person - which is never a good thing.
Then he chose to not tell you about this for 3 years. Some may say that is lying - others may not.

There are some missing details that may affect my advice.
Did your husband apologize? Did he explain why he waited so long to tell you? And why now? Does he have remorse?

There are also many questions that you should ask yourself to try and make a little more sense of this all. Do you consider your marriage and relationship to your husband good? Do you (or have you in the past) have intimate conversations together - has this changed recently?

Once you can get some of these answers - and then reflect upon them - you will be able to make some decisions - decisions that may be hard, but will help you in the long run.

Good luck Kelly!

-Jill

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