Dear Jill,

I recently decided to get orthodontic braces at the ripe old age of 28. The whole process has gone rather smoothly, up until recently. A bar was inserted in my mouth for the purpose of pushing my molars outward. The bar rests on the roof of my mouth and while the process is painless, it does effect my pronunciation. I find people asking me to repeat myself, as the bar does interfere with my tongue and therefore affects my speech. This leaves me feeling rather embarrassed at social gatherings and functions. My question is, should I explain the reason for my inarticulate speech or should I just do my best to communicate as clearly as I can for the time being?


Dear Inarticulate Speaker,

I would like to commend you on not letting age get in the way of a goal. I know it must be difficult to undergo a procedure that affects many aspects of your physical being.
In your situation, I think it best to attempt to communicate as clearly as possible. Articulate words, even if it does sound silly to you.
If you are finding that people you are speaking with are constantly asking you to repeat yourself - you can always try to use a joke to help them to understand. For example: "oh, don't mind me - I popped some marbles in my mouth earlier." (I apologize at my unfunny joke).
Good luck with the braces, and before you know it, you will have straight, beautiful teeth!

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